The Ideal INFP

The « Pure game »

– very empathic & kind
– Welcoming, communicating
– Sharing, helping
– Connecting ppl
– Loves all Cultures
– Beauty, Love

Become the Signal, not the noise

keep the integrity of my own standards, w/out imposing them on others. Discard all judging, descriptive words. Don’t status signal.

Flow

Listen to others, counsel them. help children. Hug people. No music when reflecting, but music for impulsing.

Don’t worry, one step at the time. Reflect on the righ step. You can no go wron, only experience.

If you are in service, you’ll always be in flow.

Minimal

dont engage in history, news,  logic/philosophy, violent films, world problem, avoiding emotional trigger outlets. « Take a cue from Tim Ferriss. If you want to eliminate a bad habit: take up an anti-charity and donate a painful amount of money when you break the habit. »

only you can fulfill your soul/happiness
-> internal -> only thing you can control
-> not reyling on the external

fuck obligation, fuck vows, fuck morals. do your thing.

Intent

Produce desire, which produces comittenment, which produces contentement, which produces joy – emotional mastery ( channeling) and flowing into the high states plus strategy seems to the be the attributes of the winners

Perfect Friend

i think also it’s easy to burn bridges (i did too many times), too have too many expectations (projected unto others), and not having patience (that the person becomes well rounded). but then it’s up to us what we want of life, mostly. Sucessful life (what is it), or friendly life or both ?

Imagination

Intellect defines. Imagination designs ~Imagination is the last step of the Intellect.
Begin to wonder. Statements are like « <> ». Questions are like « 123456 ». Statements are compressing. Questions are opening/liberating.

You need to know

which responsabilities you can take- which one you can’t
which domain of science are interesting for you and which one are not
which professional setting is not for you

Develop cog processes

develop fe → call your friends, organize meet-ups, put people together, carea bout somone, listen to interviews

develop se → do volunteering, help, make instant jokes in the street, go big places, interact with many, reuse things in another way

develop ti → redefine your blog, words, goals, relationships, processes

develop ni → pourpose your way, express yourself, deliver. Life by intution, aspiration, love

develop te → planifiy, execute, ask feedback, revision, stragetize. Change places, change following. Delete unuseful things. Change your information sources, processes.

Dreams : Twitter Meeting. Interviewing people. Book of quotes rewritten.

Publicités
The Ideal INFP

Event feedback

Lessons after a job convention

You should not separe food, culture and books but bring them together. If you disconnect them, it’s harder to sell. Too many stands confuses the citizen, their needs to be space and clear distinction.

Often the festivals forget to link website / twitter / fb of the represented people, thus the bond is broken between the consumer and the culture stand. So you could prepare some pdf for people who want to know more in the future about them.

Is there a possiblity of creating a virtul culture festival, with virtual centers and chatrooms ?

You have to put the photos fast after the event. Or you will lose a lot of free publicity.
Go to big events to test your talent and to advertise to a lot of people

Lessons after a job convention

You have to know exactly what the companies has to offer and what you have offer in order to match quickly and not wasting time. You need to know what you want as salary, as position. You need to be conviced of your value.

The job market is a social market, people talk to people. You need to people to move on faster and higher. There is always great competition if you what you have to offer is the same as the others, therefore growing is essential.

If you want to create a job-website, its needs to be very reactive. For the employee and the employer. Investement on social medias is essential to fast distribution of the jobs.

PHP, java, .net and c# are the most researched languages in many informatic applications.

What separates the leader is confidence, imposing ideas, having legimity and having clear defined goals.

Take some paper to write down the most research skills. Ask a lot of questions, to know more about the job world.

Lessons Apres Portes OUVertes 1535

xy : IL faut etre une expérience (pour style : avoir un photographe, pour studio : des dessins, etc), que les gens se rappelent.

xy : Il faut un film multi-promotionel.
yy : On peut inviter des gens de tout millieux

yz : Il faut créer des masterpieces, pas de pieces de merde. Il faut utiliser les cinq sens. QUand on invite les gens on soigne le décor/odeur/lumières/aliments/couleurs/ambiance/loobook/thématiques

zz : IL faut inviter un max de feedback.

? Peut on vendre de facon ambulante. ? comment lady gaga et andy warhol ont réussi à gagner ?

Event feedback

Recap on the past

Lost time

A lot of time, because unfocused focus. Lost time bc worry, anxiety, delusions about the world. Lost time watching movies ( only 50% are good, 10 & really worth it, too many times it’s just about inspiration ). Lost time trying to understand to many topics. Lost time over.intellectualizing thing. Losing time not grabbing the opportunity.

I had 10 project in mind.didnt contact people, didn’t search. only results matter. burn the notes, burn the research if something is not done in one year.

lost time playing video-games, watchin series. going to events who didn’t matte . that don’t matter,flush it out.  thinking how I definined myself or people defined me was still valid
reading too many post about the same topic.

Going out with people who didnt push my goals, or push myself. Going to university because I don’t know what do

writing everything down is a big waste of time. 10% will be rememerd.

Negligence

Not taking care of appearance, style, beard, muscles.
Not talking to people. Not going of out the house.

Recap on the past

Underneath (Desires + Dislikes )

Desire : Wanting to be rich
Explanation : Having the Capacity to Provide for Family and Onself, to Eat enough, having some sense of Style, enjoy some Experiences, Traveling to Change the Perspectives

Desires : Being Famous
Explanation : Wanting to be liked, to be known, and heard, to be part of something, to maximize one’s potential.

Desire : Travel
Explanation : To live something, to get outside, to change the mind.

Desire : Reading books , watching Movies
Explanation : Comfort in another reality, not prioritziting

 

 

Desires

Desire : Wanting to be rich Explanation : Having the Capacity to Provide for Family and Oneself, to Eat enough, having some sense of Style, enjoy some Experiences, Traveling to Change the Perspectives

Desires : Being Famous Explanation : Wanting to be liked, to be known, and heard, to be part of something, to maximize one’s potential.

Desire : Travel Explanation : To live something, to get outside, to change the mind.

Desire : Reading books , watching Movies Explanation : Comfort in another reality, not prioritize

Desire : Wanting to be rich
Explanation : Having the Capacity to Provide for Family and Onself, to Eat enough, having some sense of Style, enjoy some Experiences, Traveling to Change the Perspectives

Instead OF Rich, try to impact people by having networkds, and a secure future with honest business.
Instead of Power, he needs to have his needs meets and having friends by the side, building them up.

Instead of success, one’s needs to fulfill his potential and his ambition, or own personal goals.


 

Dislikes

Dislike : Being Rejected
Explanation : It’s difficult for the survival, need to be accepted
Woke : There are ppl who accept no matter what. Only you need to accept yourself.

Dislike : Insecurity
Explanation : Not enough confidence. Self perception of value. Woke : You are enough. YOu are needed.

Dislike : Working More.
Explanation : Having enough. And being happy with it. Woke : Here is the motivation- You are not using your full potential as king warrior magician lover. You can be more. as INFP you could/(should?) strive to be like TONY ROBBINS.- If you make more £, you can give it to other ppl who struggle. a friend of mine, did pay me with his salary. I’m forever grateful, cause I struggle. So with the ‘ excess money ‘ you could pay books for people or equipement or inviting them for food aka group meeting 😉 -> more oppurtinities

 

 

Desires : Being Famous
Explanation : Wanting to be liked, to be known, and heard, to be part of something, to maximize one’s potential.

Desire : Travel
Explanation : To live something, to get outside, to change the mind.

Desire : Reading books , watching Movies
Explanation : Comfort in another reality, not prioritziting

 

 

Underneath (Desires + Dislikes )

Crafting perfect logic

where does the data come from experimental – survey – sciences – mystic

for which population is the advice intented for : male/female – old/young – sick/healthy – national/internal

from which emotional state does the statements comes from : wisdom (neutral), passion, anger, sadness/coping, happiness. if the advice is reassurement, putting down, envie desire ( identification emotional patterns)

is it domain-specific or cross-domain? cultural or cross-cultural?

how much time took the observation : days, weeks, months ?  does the author has experience about ethics, statics, research methodes.and replication studies, peer review, financiation

is it male-centric-female centric-neutral centric- antropo-centric or bio-centric or holistic-centric ?

what could influence the data-point ? what are the multiple perspectives

there is no intellectual safe zonse

Crafting perfect logic

Learning by observing the errors of others 17

wanting a arm candy and not a partner, real human -> why, authentic is key
thinking that you are smart than everyone else -> it’s an illusion, padawan
expecting what you can’t give -> you can’t receive it, bc you dont know it
needing to much comfort -> discomfort is the key to life
not making efforts, slowing down -> you need to lose control
having happiness as only metric -> seems very shallow and not heroic
believe that single is worth it, all your life -> question yourself every year if it’s worth it
not taking challenges -> you need to grow
being resistant to society all your life -> you are part of it, don’t forget that
lying to yourself -> reveal the shit about you
being convinced that it wont work -> try maybe
not understand civic morality -> ethic is one key to happiness
not talking the marriage out, how it should be -> COm is the key
thinking your solution works for everyone -> you need to find your own
not making your partner financially independent -> resolve the money issue if you want a happy partnership
relishing in pathology -> Heal and choose the right model. You are what you are consume.

Systemasing everything or not systeming at at -> Don’t over do it

No putting the long term investing in someone -> think humanity or compound effects

having contempt -> empathy is good you know, ask before
assaulting someone -> hug that person.
defining everything -> you are not a dictonnary
see something as a problem -> search for the solution
look-up for pop-culture -> cut iff of completly

blaming old generation -> it’s your turn
overculturing (hoarding knowledge) -> keep only the useful
not oursourcing -> if you want to manage do it.
giving exuses, but, if -> no exuses , do the work

managing too many things -> one by one

stressed and smoking
not stratégiste
stayting in a bad society
responding to everyone

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dimishing the accomplishment of other genders -> elevate the others
denying yourself the love opportunity -> give yourself some love
putting someone on pedestal -> get that right, respect or consideration
not using brain, heart gut together -> you are powerful
not standing your ground -> keep that respekt
having legal and financial entanglements -> no trouble in ya way
trying with the old instead of the new -> new methodes, new life
Seeking external justification for being frustrated because you still struggle with the anger phase just perpetuates the problem -> internal -> all
Life’s too short and fragile to be small -> dream big, act big
having fomo, comparing -> it’s your lane
not having time constraints -> you get more done
not playing the number game -> onto to the next
talking about everything -> be select
thinking that you understand some person easily -> trying to understand someone
isolating yourself -> get out of that house
not making the other responsible, mature demanding -> co-creation, interdependent
having idiotic standards, such as style -> don’t close doors
not joining/creating tribe, community -> you need one to elevate yourself
over intellectualizing/universing -> stop
engaging in gender wars -> both are right and wrong
not getting feedback -> do it and your grow
talking to soon about something -> declare when war not before

usinng people as projects -> they are on their own

not understanding that people have different standards and clashing bc of it -> be ok with it

making the some point again and again -> no , innovate man.
reading to much books,relying on science -> rely on yourself, once your know critical thinking.

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