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trying to much- trying to get reality
interating too mcuch- not eating enoug
nto understantind the other gender
not follwing your plan, not backing it up
limint your love, expansion, love to one person
being lazy
not being a challenge

summer : too dark clothes. vest. to big back, to much hair, to many books, toot hot
witner : not umbrella, no adapative clohtes

losing language : maybe, possibilites ( not in the terrain)
stly eeroorr : not enough contrast, not wach, not ass, too much revealing
too much same colors

not explaining your expectations
thinking that other see reality like you
just go along, not confronting
– no ppl to train with (no true I was there)
– loss of momentum (dangerous!)
– negligent physio developpement
– no social pressure
– too far away
– lack of money
– lack of energy
– comfort
– no time
no excuses for sport developement
regarder clips youtube
not asking for feedback
not being ready to play with influencers
reading too much
learning tooo many concepts, no coherent logic
stuck in cause-effect (with attendant fear of being ineffective in getting to the effect
Immature? Socially awkward? Poor hygeine? Substance abuse issues? are traps
-> serious -> social skills -> clean -> no druged -> nono violent
-> good clothes -> right place -> interesting/obbie

Learning by observing the errors of others 54

Learning by observing the errors of others 53

browsing without method
realocating, wrong way
not finally ways
waitinf for other ppl
ne pas acheter bonne bouffe
ne pas pousser dans dans la zone uncomfrotabl
not trying something
letting the idea go
not having a prgram
not having stimulus
not stying in social groups
not doing sports
not fliritng
not protecting yourself
not asking about the history of other ppl
not paying directly
not doing social nicieties
not getting in the body

not knowing what the other person wants
unrealistic expectations
unlimited access

reading too much books
nnot having goood ppl around
not dong what you have do to
usnng too much internet
not using your inspiration media

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Learning by observing the errors of others 52

too much politics
tioo much serious
not getting out of temparement
too much rs
too much mysticis
not being groomeed
too much phlegm/mel
removing from essence style
not taking advtnage of youngness
not concentrating one thing
not buzing things
not lending books
not having courake
not fleshing out your persona- no se
not wanting intsentity
being unsure
not texting first
waiting on someone

assuming something

being in the wrong grouop
not wroking enough
not sleep enough

not getting out enough

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Learning by observing the errors of others 51

having put expectations onto ppl -> find the right ppl, ppl show you who they are
eating too late
not sharing things online
not declaring it’s contextual
doing the asy things
rumingn yourself
not loving ppl bc of their flaws-> love what they good at
searching for`methods
not taking a job

existential terror
not trustining
not having a deadline
too easy tasks
not asking for respect
not dressing for the part
seeking perfection
not being stressed
being afraid to fai
lackiing money
not standing up soson
not connedcting on the good platfomrs
being to excited

not using politnessformulea
not doing some artisic
not taking job
not pushing
not confronting
not asking for he,lp
not joying
not reponsing quickly

taling too mcuh
not knowing how to cut hair

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Questions for value

question for value

which stag
which skills yo need
what do you search
what is your learning style
what are your struggle
what is pscho profile
what kind of energy do you diffuse ?
which type you want ot make
which dreams


social media agency
festival entrepreneur
producer dj
music trends, festivlas
free lance illustrator, desinger
fahsion photohraphy

Real estate, business consulting, writing, and a bookkeeping biz at the moment.

what ppl like

traveliing ( moto )
cute animals
photoshoots, drawiing, magaine
good entertainemet

Giving Value
What People Value

People are always searching for exchange of value
Mostly it’s about
Sports/Being Fit/Sex ( positions, kinks, fantasies, techniques, TAO)
Money, Job, Independence
Culture (heritage, heroes, games, food )/Philosophy/Language
Fun (doing dangerious things * shoooting * bmx), Travel (hotels – sportinstallations )Arts, Dance, Eating
Mindset (philo, stoicism, absurdism, sufism, etc ) and oppurtinities
organisation minimalism time management
On Insta Age
instage age – filters, god presentation – video editing
internet site building
fashion photo – nude photo – travel phhoto, portrait

travel cheap, travel with people
what to visit, where
clothing – museuum, beauty, installation, unique place, markets, shopping, institutions
find where cheap location : locations for conferences, for teams, for traineing
what do to do on the beach.
finding atttraction park
offering a spectualr ride * helicopter * horse

espace de coworking. endroitde recrute
recrtuers, open callers, donneur de competences
des gens musicaux. de films. de langues. d’exercices
dlcouvrir pour le voyage
apprendre par so i meme

how to create spaces
how to colocation
how to make good dinner together
how to learn beter together

self confidence ( solving social fears, identity problems )
cooperation skills
tech tips (informatic tips). travel tips (Where, with who). product tips (bookcase, travelcase ,ihponecases)
Some of the best gifts
partner for tandem ( language learning )
finding an team for some sport
find a bf or gf for someone
inviting to a really good events
suggesting a good website, youtube channel or resoure online
find quick ways to make money -> permit your friends to survice
know people who can house you or your friends while you’re travelling -> the struggle to have a nice place to rest can be reduced
Pro Social
include young people or old people, rearrange for them.
which things people remember after yeers
compliments, encouragements, help, thank, gifts, being kind, questioning, redirecting in effective ways, sending the adequate material , being knowledgeable, listening, finding the right issue
the extra effect of : calling the person or sending a letter
finding assistant, manager, investor
Some secret desires/wishes people can have

– Find a sex/psycho/mindset compatibile partner
– Joining the right tribe/group
– That some issues/problem/double-standards get acknowledged
– Fulfilling some childhood dreams
– Get help on something that’s troublesome (for me singing)
– Getting that tough/sensitve conversations one needs
– Finding a good website/apps for travel/learning/eating
– To create something, big or not
– To find a way to leave a legacy
– To get help on this or that addiction
– To find out how one’s can maximize his potential/voice
– to inspire hope/courage/creativity/desire
– to learn new things in a easy way
– that the partner understand nuances&points easily
– hearing disruptive/taboo/ »brutal » talks
– to pick up the clues one is leaving, shows consideration
– transmit your possessions to the right person
– understanding and living well with the other sex
– that your works & articles are read before questionning it
– to get rid of prejudices/stereotpyes/biases
– interacting with many cultures and personalities
– to be healthy & finding the right diet
– to live in the right places
finding how you can show your cultural pride
someoneone who makes a movie out of your life
stylists find new materials
Market Research Service
Graphic Design Service
Event creator
Finding places (with lights, good energy, easy to find), find restaurant, having flyiers, transmitting the info
writers -> writing -> platfrom
writers -> selling -< amazon
> bookstores
Find apps to telecom ( anyonym) – (group messaing)
Having soft skills
Developing opportunities
Giving feedback.
Complex issues
“How do you balance Novelty and Goal-orientation?”
-> find how interior desing
–> find magazines, buy things, experiments, go online
–> ask a group to design it
-> find easy way
–> know their needs anf make exchange
-> good ultrabooks for working on the go
-> how to get feedback and integrate the opinion
-> how to finance project, platform like patreon