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Are you focused on order and perfection?
HAVING A big fear of rejectio
TRY DOING EVERYTHING RIGHT
taking criticism personally
often critical of weakness in others
intense feelings of inadequacy and helplessness
of being rigid or stubborn
BEING TOO DISCIPLINED
HAVING MAGICAL THINKING -> PLAN FOR RESULTS
NOT GOING OUT AND SEARCHING FOR new friends
not giving praise
not analysing emotions
procastining -> start something
social withdrwaen -> go where people are
lack of self confidence -> up your style, muscles, expressions
internalizing shame _> let that on the roof
being sensitivity to rejection
wanting to preserve yourself
not wanting to have sex -> try it
non-compétitif -> have competition, make your life the best, you want to up your potential
autonome -> ask for help
sentir exclu de vie (sociale) -> go to fesvials, exchanges, cinema, expositions
auto-dévalorisation -> call a friend
peur de l’intimité replié/renfermé -> go closer
envieux de la spontanéité chez les autres -> do theater
plongé dans son imagination -> go out
‘incapacité à articuler ses idée -> write down
usage autocentrique de la langue -> talk about other subjects
aversion pour les potins sexuels et l’insinuation -> treat love as a delicacy
lack of activiies -> try more acitivities
being reserved -> express yourself. with many and with many words. engage
intellectualizen -> go with people
sens de l’auto-sacrifice -> dont forget to ask and to give yourself
Peu de désir sexual -> go for it
trouble dépressif majeur, la dysthymie -> have meaning, activities.
Croyances bizarres ou pensée magique  de l’absurdité métaphysique, ou de la « nausée -> get real
isolement social auto-imposé
tentative d’éviter des situations physiques -> learn to combat, muscles
Difficulty expressing anger, even when provoked -> express yourself
always wanting to have it better -> good
perfectionnist -> dont isolate, dont counteract,
routine -> break, talk friend, try new things
resist but no accept -> stop. accept, change

low extroversion -> talk, dress, dance, seduce, create

schizo -> hug more, complment more, go with the others
elping her, only reinforces her “sense of helplessness -> strive for discipline4
being too humble

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Learning by observing the errors of others 41

Learning by observing the errors of others 40

searching for the finsih products
not appreciating your won sexuality
not understanding the words
not knowing what you like, which job you want
not updatign your CV
using double standards, sellf – justicication, backwars justification
trying to be too fast
blaimg instead of creating, taking up the task

thinking you are not worth it or that you dont deserve it
abssorbing too much info ? why : procastination, illsuging of working. solution : get to work. not when it’s too much. relax, walk and back to work.
deleting but not creating

convince 1 person.
having pleasure before work
thinking reading/colledcting/watching/writing is working when it’s not
thinking there is a proprer -> there are many ways
being in something you dont like
doing the same mistake over and over again
saying you are not artistic
not trying at least once

practing  » evil  »

do i apply the standars to myself, do i have double standards
thinking your method is the best
forcing everyone to have goals
delightng in power
labelling people as evil, painitng people as bossy
being lazy. using ppl. being fataslisc, negative.
Living of other people, houses, food
projecting fantasieson other people. pushing your own taste.
thining that the expert is expert on imposing standards on himself
trying to deceive

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believing in

security , most false -> you can have some money, some self defense
money , it can help you move -> but you need self-sufficience
family , it supports you -> but its not always the best
Love, is good -> but you need to be realist about it too
insitutions, wealth, ownership
laws , the most real law is the natural one.
right, history, movies,
porn is fake, only pixels, good with somone real
time, signs, language, good and bad
fame power
confidence is singnalling, but how much are you really confident
meaning , purpose, ideologies yourself
corporations, ranks, statues, friends,
culture, only one, human culture
countries, borders dont exist -> we are all humans
videogames you don’t live, you are in bubble of self-proulsion
human right, done for stability, but ??

equality sounds nice, but takes too much time to be there

results -> results change people, make sure it’s really
change -> what did change, and for long ?
thinking you know -> you dont know . thing new age is real too

the need of contrast is false, false sceptism, debunking, cursign
taking things for granted

being distracted by – events – visits – friends – art – informatoin

believing emotions are real – thinking your fears are real – project on people

blaming, scapegoating -> take up responsability

mood swings, aggression, paranoia, delusion

having neediness

panic disorder, stress intolerance, one-way communication skill,
own group bias,, , shortsighted thinking, male well-being apathy
not having courage, perseveracne, informed, high state, multi channel, relax
seeing people as other , diff, but not seeig they are more alkime than diff

ETRE DANS L’EXCES DU désir, de la consommation
ne pas aborder les femmes
ne pas lancer des slows
llusion and truth, power and helplessness

acting on too much strategy
being attached, using the wrong method
not considering all aspect of the questions
not realizing that advice is linked to age, environnnement, gender, reactions
not considering the opposite sex reactions – alienations

ne pas se respecter
ne pas planifier le soir, et le matin meme
etre violent
ne pas sortir de la zone de comfort
ne pas voir la valeur du matij
ne pas comprendre les causes
ne pas se confronter
ne pas user l’imagination

trop lire sur internet
pas forcer la chose
pas de structure d’organisation
pas de routine qui ambiannce
pasdepoussage
trop de vetements -> 1-2 veste, 3 chemises, 1 pull, 4 t-shirt, 6 caleons et chaussettess sufissent

lack of drive, laziness, inability to perform under pressure

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customers, and some shop owners, always assume we’re out to fuck them over and rip them off. -> treat with respect, invite people
Drugs, alcoholism , bad tempers, etc. -> control addic
lack of ambition -> have some
xternal validation is more important to them then questioning their own morality.? -> good luck
handicapping the strong, including talentless people
can’t keep rage under control
not using all kinds of love to make it
The danger could be losing the authentic self they started out with
lettint your creation take over you
think you can protect your true self
think rich, power is everything
thinking that you dont have fulfills you
thinking people want the same thngs
power ca be a burden
threating people or things like a possesion
not using your power to change
following the lawa blindly
not having humility
take the usual path
truggling to making ends meet, having little leisure time and being bored
oo much free time and no purpose.
pressure at work.
nd didn’t know any better.
een to what’s going wrong instead of what’s righ
often irritable and grouchy all the tim
that being miserable is “cool” and complaining
l this utopian society and pop movie crap has tricked us.
things that are making them upset/stressed can usually be mitigated or avoided but they aren’t choosing to do anything about them.
not making people centre of attention when they need

have no responsibilities. Without them, they have no goals. Without goals, there are no achievements. Without achievement, there is no happines. have no responsibilities. Withoyut them, they have They have no intellect, no spirit to invent, to instinct to explore. Their life have no meaning.  -> TAKE YOUR LIFE BY THE REIGNS

not preparing
not having the right frame
not lifitng
give the merit
being with drunk and no enthouastic people
not stepping up, not making alliancse

thinking the worst is going to happen
esacoubg the task
not seeing other people
being obssedsed
not confronting oneself

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ustomers, and some shop owners, always assume we’re out to fuck them over and rip them off. -> treat with respect, invite people
Drugs, alcoholism , bad tempers, etc. -> control addic
lack of ambition -> have some
xternal validation is more important to them then questioning their own morality.? -> good luck
handicapping the strong, including talentless people
can’t keep rage under control
not using all kinds of love to make it
The danger could be losing the authentic self they started out with
lettint your creation take over you
think you can protect your true self -> revealing your secrets liberates you
think rich, power is everything
thinking that you dont have fulfills you
thinking people want the same thngs
power ca be a burden
threating people or things like a possesion
not using your power to change
following the lawa blindly
not having humility
using fullness and forgetting emptiness
thinking that things are not possible

revering god tech
dwelling on the past and on the future, forgetting the present
confliciting cause and symptom
not being at the same pace
not asking other people how they see you -> do it to imporve

not remvoing the safety net
not having an identity
thinking it’s us vs them -> its’ not
thinking you are not enough
not radically accpeting realtiy
being afraid to ame new friends
not uplifing other people
thinking evertyhing it has to matter
being blinded by your own senses, bias, jugemenets

money traps

undervaluing your servie
not believe in it
not feeling confident
thinkiing it’s bad to sell
scared to push

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only playing on strenght
not allowing yourself to display weakness
not adapting to society
not realizind dreams
not negotiating enough
not analzing the subconcious
not listen to audiobooks
not doing sports, having psychial routines
not goint to bars, being too isolated
not trying out your sports
not going alone somewhere
not buying new things
not clearning
not playing enoughy
not askng questions
make *themselves* bigger than they are -> make the goal biggere
trap of celebrity
using politics as identity
not travelling

lack of self disciipline
lack of exercice
lack of sleep

taking a story from another person
thkinking a certain way
not having a plan to have money
not having a way to release yourself fully
not going to the right group
being judged, rejected, getting hurt. -> it’s not the end
not getting out of the comfort zone

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abandoning directly the first time -> it takes time , you need to try time again
not building, not learning
not observing
not being pure
being too prideful
not having more attacks
not using the infinite pride in oneself, in yourself
not doing sports
not going to the experts -> learn with them
not lifiting
not seeing it’s out of conteext -> find context
not rsisng from the ashs
not expecting more from other people
pointing finger but not chaning, introspecting

Oversimplyfing issues ( capitalism/materiaslism/divorce/education ) forgetting the issues -> learn more
not writing out your thoughs and assessing if each point is true or not

Using too many complicated words and too long speeches
Not knowing what your words means.

thinking that some lifestyle is wrong

not searching up new evidences for your facts, arguments -> search actual evidence
commenting, critizing, blaming, judging -> wasting a lot of time
being obseed with social media
blaming other people
not aspireing better
not realizinz that some people are pressured by peer pressure and strength
drive for excitement/validation/newness
to go after the symptoms rather than the cause.
elieve that you always deserve better than what you have…”
oes for a living their identity when the job is over either through retirement or a layoff their identity all too often goes with it.
virtue signaliing
being in the ivory twoer

wondering what could have been for the rest of your life.
ou imagine your failures and humiliations to be so much worse than everyone else out there
not getting the clue
not making a move
let your low self-esteem get in the way of obvious clues
not investing in interest people
not being hygenic ( breath, room air)
seeing people as equal
letting yourself being manipluated
take verything serioulsy
not learindg people
not seting boundaries
not becoming supeiroir
not being seflisi enough
not accumlaiting ressources enough
being afraid to risk zeroing out, and start over

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