attraction _ liking sexy
arousal – get wet, horny
desire and want. genuine desire is marked by a need not a want. A Mother might enter a burning building for her baby.
interest-preference-desire. interest – arous intellect, wakes you up. preference – is habit or repeated encounter. desire is the true wanting
sexual fantasy is a fantasy , not a scenario who is wanted to be experienced, showing an impulse somewhere. reality is the situation right now, with freedom and sanity.
just wild and lack self control. And the word emotional is used in place of wild and undisciplined
envy and indignation
envy -> want, desires based, based on desire mostly. based on admiration/focus on others, and not believing in one potential
contempt -> attack, not understanding of the case of others. based on the self, not having enough.
indignation -> destruction of world/earth, unequal, to selfish
purpose -> long goal, tied with values
freedom -> eco social geo cultural mobility
Fear -> this blocks you of moving, irrational or rational. Being Scared -> you don’t give a try so it’s irrational prevision.
>as emotive state or dish
> as indivudal states/worlds
gratitude – being okay where you are in, whatever you move in
ambition – wanting to be in full posssesion of your potential
celebrity -> popstar, popculture, social agenda heavily based
influence -> hard-work, values, truth, beauty -> based
equal opportunity -> access to resources, ppl, markets
equal outcome -> impossible to attain, bc not same experiences, views, contacts, timing.
voluntary and coercive
voluntary -> your choice
coercive -> under a treath
Multiculturalism » is actually a « Uniculturalism ».
races/ethnicity/tribes can build a multi-cultures zone
rejection of humanity -> life is too much, humans are bad.
rejection, by nihilism -> life has no meaning, no truth
Instead of embracing life, he distances himself from it in order to avoid further pain > dom mage avoidance
Perfection -> ideal
humanity -> relatable to yourself and the rest of humanity
risk-aversion : taking no risk, no life essence
risk-management : considering which risk to take and doing it.
might be correct -> needs further studies, not sure if helping (probability). will help -> can be correct, does help
huge difference between a cognitive preference and a habit
cog -> Your conscious differentiation of thinking, feeling, sensation and intuition. The groundwork for everything else
habit -> adopted behav feed loop
easy to label (make distinction) but hard to live it(experience). Easy to proclaim(saying someting), difficult to do it with persistence (action).
fear and value alignment
It’s not fear. It’s value alignment. Things aren’t aligned in my life for me to commit my focus.
Prey: attacked. lamb. defenseless
vs predator : attacking, wolf, defending
Opportunité/anger : oppurtinity to growth
vs danger/escape : seeing yourself as not taking the responsability
true -> objective -> search of wisdom
useful -> can be false, but can help the user, can give him confidence -> search of strategy/usefulness
Life permits ego stroking, but ego stroking doesn’t permit life.
learrning -> apllying
accumulating knowledge -> hoarding, no use, no growth.
temperament -> attitude , psychological
your ability -> technical, capacital
Make the point right
Violence will ALWAYS be in humans. We are lazy, and we are power hungry. It is just human nature
-> Violence caused by lack of money, community and job opportunity, love and growth
-> Violence caused by structures/environment, prejudice, harmfull philosophies
–> can be resolved by meeting the first step of maslow pyramid
–> violence can be re channeled into arts, sports/energetic goals, travel